by Sometimes we follow all the rules and we use the skills and it still does not work out the way we would like. Well, not everyone received the same rule book!
People who come from unhealthy environments often do not know how to respond to an emotionally healthy person. They live in their own dysfunction, which is normal to them. When someone behaves in a manner contrary to what they expect, it challenges their own belief systems; it is threatening. Their ego defense mechanisms kick in and their response can be bizarre and confusing. (Like throwing apples at you!)
Ask yourself, “what is going on here?” It may not be your problem. Just because someone behaves in a negative way to your efforts, does not mean that you were inappropriate.
And think, several months ago, you may have been the dysfunctional person who couldn’t have a rational conversation. Celebrate your growth and surround yourself with like-minded positive people.